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Suicide: The War on Poverty…Poverty won!

by Ed Mattson

 

Friday I started this two-part article on understanding suicide, blaming much of it on the basic deterioration of the family unit and society as a whole. The basis is on the observation that for decades the issue of military suicide was at, or in many cases, just a notch below suicide in the general population.

It is my belief that it was the result of the disciplined structure of military life and the fact that throughout the first half of the 20th century, particularly in time of war, we had a balance between conscription and volunteers. Additionally, prior to the War of Poverty, which began in the Sixties, the majority of military enlistments came from two-parent, intact families.

According to The Future of Children Foundation (The Future of Children is a collaboration of the Woodrow Wilson School of Public and International Affairs at Princeton University and the Brookings Institution), “the changes in the marriage, divorce, and remarriage rates over the past 70 years have had a profound effect on the living arrangements of children. A growing number of children are being raised by single parents or by stepparents.

In 1990, there were 64.1 million children under 18 in the United States; the vast majority (45.2 million, or 70.5%) lived in two-parent households. Most children (37 million, or 57.7%) lived with their biological parents, 11.3% (7.2 million) lived in married stepfamilies, and 1.5% (1 million) lived with adoptive parents. Approximately one quarter of the children lived in single-parent households; 9.5% (6 million) with a divorced, single parent, 7.7% (4.9 million) lived with a never-married parent, 7.6% and (4.9 million) lived with a separated or widowed parent, and 4.7% (3 million) lived in a house with no parent present”.

“In 1940, 85% of children lived in two-parent families, 70% lived in an intact (biological or adoptive) two-parent family, and the remaining 15% lived in two-parent stepfamilies. In spite of the increasing divorce rates in the 1960s and 1970s, a large majority of children in 1988 still lived in two-parent families (71%), and a majority (58%) still lived in intact two-parent families. However, since the 1970s, there has been a large increase in the proportion of children living with never-married mothers (from 1.1% in 1970 to 6.7% in 1988) or divorced mothers (from 3.5% in 1970 to 7.8% in 1988)”, from the same report.

One can draw a direct correlation between the rise in broken families and military suicides beginning in the Vietnam era when the family structure began to crumble. Many of the young men, (most were born in the 1940’s) were drafted shortly after high school because they couldn’t afford a “college deferment”. The cost of a college education, even in those days, was beyond the means of many single family households. Additionally, the other avenues to “dodge Vietnam” were to join the National Guard, flee to Canada, or “be connected” to get a lower draft registration classification with the help of an affluent parent.

2/3 of those who served in Vietnam however, were volunteers or those who volunteered for 1-A status for the draft. That figure alone was enlightening. But within the five-year period following the withdrawal of troops and discharge from the military, deaths from suicide were 1.7 times more likely among Vietnam veterans than non-Vietnam veterans. This has to stem from the despair of the disintegrated family (with no one to turn to) and the “psychological pain” felt from the rejection most troops received on their homecoming.

An added fact that must be consider when assessing why the suicide rate jumped following Vietnam, was that the average infantryman faced 240 days in combat because of the helicopter versus just 40 days over the entire four-year war in combat for the veterans of WWII.

LBJ's Great Society failed!

Since the Vietnam era the changes in the marriage, divorce, and remarriage rates have had a profound effect on the living arrangements of children. The number of children being raised by single parents or by stepparents has risen steadily. In 1990, approximately one quarter of the 64.1 million children under the age of 18 lived in single-parent households; 9.5% (6 million) with a divorced, single parent, 7.7% (4.9 million) lived with a never-married parent, 7.6% and (4.9 million) lived with a separated or widowed parent, and 4.7% (3 million) lived in a house with no parent present. While this trend is seen regardless of ethnicity, it has grown to epidemic proportion in the African-American population where 52% of the children do not live in a 2-parent household. In 1960 the figure was closer to 4%!

The rise of the suicide problem has to be laid at the foot of the failed social policies whose “safety-net” promises and grandiose schemes of the government becoming “the provider of choice” for many. It has created an entire class of dependency. To become eligible for government support there is a disincentive to have children inside a two-parent family structure. Today with such a high number of children without the family support we had in the first half of the 20th century, is it any wonder to anyone with half a brain, that society in general, across the entire spectrum, has deteriorated to the point where all forms of crime, drug and alcohol dependency, high school dropout rate, and poverty, is on the rise. No one ever reached “wealth status” on government handouts.

Here we are in 2011 witnessing an epidemic suicide rate in the ranks of the military rising rapidly since the start of the Gulf conflicts. Were it just for the fact that our troops are facing multiple deployments with little R&R in between (as was pointed out by Marine Corps veteran John Murtha), then we could easily blame “battle fatigue” (from WWI), shell shock (a WWII diagnosis), and post traumatic stress disorder PTSD (current diagnosis), as the culprit and forget my entire theory about the “family structure”. That would be easy. BUT what about those in the military who have never been in the battle zone? Their rate of suicide is just as bad statistically when compared to the general population.

Over one million people die by suicide every year. The World Health Organization (WHO) estimates that suicide is the thirteenth-leading cause of death worldwide while the US National Safety Council rates it sixth in the United States. Suicide is the leading cause of death among teenagers and adults under 35 with the rate being higher in men than in women. Additionally, there are an estimated 10 to 20 million non-fatal attempted suicides every year.

You can easily see that the isolation many Vietnam era veterans felt following their homecoming, without the comfort of a nurturing family environment, can be directly associated with obvious issues that make suicide a viable alternative to life… Socio-economic factors such as unemployment, poverty (stemming from discrimination of being a veteran), homelessness, and the pain of PTSD were all part of the lexicon that awaited the returning warrior. One VA study found that a lack of social support, a deficit in feelings of belongingness and living alone were crucial predictors of a suicide attempt.

The military today is just as vulnerable as I pointed out in earlier articles. The enlistment ranks are swelled with those fresh out of high school, many who are married within months of joining the military. Following their initial training they are sent off to Iraq and Afghanistan, leaving their family at home to live on an income below the national poverty line (the military enlisted are the at the bottom of the federal pay scale). Many come home to find their own family in disarray because it never had time to mature before being deployed. In short many couples have “outgrown their relationship” and there is a gap in communication, intimacy, and what being a father or mother is all about. This is the perfect scenario for a deteriorating relationship leading to PTSD and loneliness, much the same as the Vietnam veteran felt upon his return.

The only difference between the Vietnam vet and the veteran today is that the realities he faced in no-fault divorce, the feminization of America, the single parent household, and the dependency on government as “the bread-winner”, came to symbolize the family of the Sixties, so too has the deterioration of the families as outlined above given way to “the perfect storm” environment for suicide. My assessment of the family environment being at the core of the problem is not a lone thought. Governments all over the world are reluctant to devote much effort to investigating the “family unit” as the root cause of suicide, because of their “investment” in social justice and other liberal policies make it impossible to admit failure. And that my friends, flies in the face of everything the War on Poverty was going to fix!

As President Ronald Reagan said… “in the Sixties we fought a War of Poverty and Poverty Won”.

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4 Comments for “Suicide: The War on Poverty…Poverty won!”

  1. You are right on! You are the very first person that equates to my understanding of this war business affecting the marriage and family. The way I see it now is that the U.S. is utilizing all of our National Guard to fight in foreign (illegal wars) and consequently leaving no young men for our women here in the U.S. They will however, the young women here in the U.S. be able to co-mingle with the illegal Mexicans or all the 4-F’s or immigrants to further “diversify” the U.S. populace aka…………eliminate the “white man”. This is the agenda of the Jesuits that are running the whole show to get even with Martin Luther and to destroy the white Christian! To infiltrate the white race with foreigners is their ultimate goal……………to destroy God’s perfect creation and keep every race unto their own.

  2. Boy I thought I had seen it all, but this has to be out there with “my shower is a transporter to a planet called
    bootoog where people pretend they are birds”. To think someone would try and relate Johnson’s war on poverty to military suicides is comedic to be polite to be honest it’s something much more sad.

  3. Mr. Mattson I commented on your first article about this issue, but I think you missed my point entirely!

    First of all Veterans ARE NOT properly taken care of when they leave the service! I can not stress this point nearly enough! Writing for a Veterans site I would think you would know this first hand!

    Second, most women I have come into contact with in this country, white or otherwise WILL NOT give someone like me, a Disabled Veteran Injured “In The Line Of Duty”, the time of day, much less date, marry, or have children with, no matter what they claim to say about supporting our troops, etc.!

    For one reason, as I have been told numerous times, is because I am not able to work anymore due to my “Service Connected Injuries”, that I must point out WHERE NOT taken care of properly by the military, or the very corrupt VA System!

    Who cares that before I chose to join the military at 17 I was one of the most energetic, athletic people around! I had pro soccer scouts watching me at 11 years old! I was that good! My older brother even tried to talk me into trying out for the St. Louis Cardinals Football Team instead of going into the military! I was that athletic!

    Next, I am also considered “Damaged Goods” by today’s women!

    Who cares that I have very strong family values, or that I was raised to respect women, or that I can foster children them, and can afford them! But then again I’m not rich so……

    I blame this on the media’s portrayal of the “perfect man or woman”, and the materlistic world we have become!

    You are right about a couple things though. First being that Veterans were, and are still descriminated against in the job market, at least when I was still able to work! I had to settle for minimum wage jobs even-though they were making my “Service Injuries” worse, and I was qualified for better! And better not show them your DD-214! Then of course came the “Self Medicating”, suicidal idea’s, etc.!

    Second, I have seen time and time again throughout my life people who would rather just have more children to get more “Welfare” than get a job! They don’t even care that they can’t properly take care of the one’s they already have! It has become a “Job” of sorts!

    Not to mention many men, and some women care more about “getting laid” then the consequences of it!

    One last point I would like to make about Veterans, many find out that what they where willing to give thier lives for is really a lie! 9/11, and the ensueing FALSE wars that followed being a very good example!

    We live in a society now that promote’s the “perfect person”, government of TREASON, payraises for so called leaders that do NOTHING, while the real hero’s are forgotten, and basically medicated to death, or get so fed up they finally just kill themselves!

    I know all this FIRST HAND! Hell I’m living through it every F*CKING DAY I’m even able to get out of bed anymore! You think anyone really cares? NO! Especially not the VA/Government that is more interested in finding some “Root Cause”, or a link to past family problem for a veterans depression, etc. so they can get off the hook, than it is to actually helping! THIS IS FACT!

    It’s sad when you can’t even talk about what’s really going on with you to the VA without them changing what you say, or linking it to a false past they envision to get out of paying benefits!

    I could go on but…..

    Yet people like me should not be bitter, etc., should we?

    Remember 9/11, and The USS Liberty, both done by the same COWARDS!

    Restore the US Constitution!

    US “Republic” First, Always!

    US Army Veteran,
    Marc C. Daniele
    Herculaneum, Mo.

  4. Marc,

    I do not profess to have all the answers for every case. You are right as to the media “creating the perfect man and women” based on physical appearance which is something we all must live with. Men are no better when they first meet a woman…it is a smile, the breast size, the legs, or something that triggers the old juices. I attribute much of this to “where we meet someone of interest”. Great relationships are seldom found inside some disco or honky-tonk saloon. Those places are reserved for the exact person looking for “Miss America” or “Mr. Universe” or those looking for primal instincts to be filled (horny).

    Close family ties are essential for mental well-being and that by the way, can be seen in other animal species as well. This is not to say that all who don’t have such luck turn up suicidal, it’s just that the chance for normalcy is far better.

    One of my best friends ever was born with a degenerative disease that had him wheelchair bound from age 18-19 yet he became the best salesman for my company; never had children but found a great and devoted wife. He was killed last year in a car accident at age 65+ or something like that, so I know there are women out there that look beyond physical appearance. Perhaps you are looking in the wrong places. I found my current wife (lost the first to a long 15-year battle with cancer) at our pediatric cancer center in Eastern Europe but had great relationships with women I met in the library, going back to school, or by happenstance when I wasn’t on the prowl. Perhaps military veteran support groups and their functions might be a source or even through the social media of the Internet.

    The VA, like all government institutions struggle with finding good and caring personnel. They are blogged down with a bureaucracy that often doesn’t work well. Many are frustrated with the system and it shows up in their dealing with the veterans. That will probably never change. If you give me a chance to help, send me “your story”. I’ll write about you in the “third person” and lets see what kind of support we can turn-ou. My articles are carried on Vets Today, Examiner.com, and sometime syndicated to other sites. Hell man…if someone on death row can find a partner, I know they are out there!

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