How to Easily Spot Scammers on Dating Sites


Online dating works and gives many people an opportunity to find their match. However, there are also many scammers online. The amount of money daters lose by being taken in by them is increasing all the time. The losses are not only financial but emotional too and the mental scars can last for years. To help you protect yourself, here are some ways to spot scammers. 

Scammers use a fake photo

Scammers will often use the photos of good-looking people as their own. If a handsome hunk approaches you, check the photo before responding. You can copy the photo and paste it into Google’s Reverse Image search. If the photo appears on social media under someone else’s name, you immediately know it’s false. 

If you’re a young girl, and you’re approached by an older man, don’t fall for the sugar daddy scam. You may think the photo of “John Smith” (who may actually be a 26-year old Nigerian) is quite cute and decide to respond. Find out more about how a scammer can swindle you out of your hard-earned cash and how to spot out such scammers at Iris Dating on

Scammers want to move away from the dating app

Most dating websites will respond to any reports of strange behavior and they can also check individual profiles for signs of unusual behavior, such as sending the same message to many people. 

Scammers will usually suggest moving away from the dating site and going to a private channel to communicate so they won’t get caught. They will use the excuse that their membership is about to expire or it isn’t easy for them to log in every day from their location. 

If they’re pushing you to move your conversation, it’s a major red flag. Until you have met in person, don’t give out your email address, cell phone number or physical address. 

Scammers fall for you straight away

Be suspicious if someone seems to fall in love with you almost immediately. Most relationships take time to develop but scammers will rush in. They know how to exploit your emotions and how good it makes you feel to be told how special you are. 

They will tell you they have never felt this way before and anything else they think you want to hear. Once they earn your trust, it is easier to ask you for money. 

Scammers come up with excuses not to meet you in person

Scammers often live abroad and come up with stories to cover for this. Their profile may say they live close to you but they say they’re working overseas or that they are in the military. They always have a good excuse for not meeting you in person. 

Scammers will tell you that they can’t wait to see you but right before a trip to see you. They have to cancel due to some emergency or other. If this happens over and over again, it’s a sure sign you’re dealing with a scammer. 

Scammers ask you for money 

The number one sign that you’re relating to a scammer is a request for money. Online dating scammers can get very creative in the ways they ask you for money. They know how to tug at your heartstrings and make you feel bad for saying no. For example, they may say they need money for medical care for a child. 

It may take weeks or months for the requests for money to come but they will come. If you’re asked for money, you should always say no and report the person to the dating site. Don’t fall for scammers who want your cash and not your love.

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