JEA: Henry Makow has done it again. He has given some food for thought.
…by Henry Makow
Helen Andelin’s book Fascinating Womanhood (1963) PDF is subversive to the New World Order because it upholds the inherent difference between the sexes and the basic laws governing marriage.
Such a book would never be published today. It is only available because it appeared 58 years ago and sold more than 2 million copies. If you have any doubt about your sexual identity, I recommend Fascinating Womanhood. It is pertinent to men as well as women. I also recommend Andelin’s Fascinating Girl for single women and her husband’s Man of Steel and Velvet for men.
I’m not saying you should treat this model as gospel or that it’s for everyone. For eg., Andelin implies women should reward men with sex. That seems dated and I told her so in an email. My comment was met with a frosty silence!
The truth is, women need sex as much as men, but feminine women don’t admit that!
Nevertheless, the book represents a timeless heterosexual paradigm that works.
Femininity and masculinity are an art, like playing the piano. They must be learned. We have to know the basics before we can improvise.
People are very malleable. Society is the target of a long-term Cabalist Jewish hate campaign designed to degrade and discredit heterosexuality. Domestic violence and rape are highlighted to make women fear men, reject femininity and become masculine. The destruction of the family has always been the goal of the financial elite in order to control people. (See “The Illuminati Program”) I will elaborate below.
THE BASICS OF FEMININITY
Andelin says a woman’s happiness depends on her husband’s lifelong devotion and love. This book teaches women how to be attractive to men, how to be feminine. Andelin writes that women don’t have to be beautiful to be feminine.
“Acquire a feminine manner by accentuating the differences between yourself and men, not the similarities. Since the masculine manner is strong firm and heavy, yours should be gentle, delicate and light. Apply this in the way you walk, talk, use your hands and carry yourself.” (256)
I can still remember how a girl I knew closed a kitchen cupboard with a motion of her hips. This happened 52 years ago when I was 20!
When Andelin writes that a feminine woman is never “crude, vulgar, harsh, overbearing or critical,” it is apparent that the fair sex is being deliberately degraded and neutered by the media. “All your conversation should reflect tenderness, patience, forgiveness, tolerance and love.”
A wife’s first priority is her husband and then her children. Thus a single woman will consecrate herself for her future husband and children as much as possible. She will not be promiscuous.
Wives tend to put career, friends, parents, success and appearance before their husbands. “If you are a successful career woman, keep your priorities straight,” Andelin writes. “Let your husband know by words and actions that he is number one.” (95)
The woman’s primary role is to be a wife, mother and homemaker. The man’s role is to be a guide, protector and provider. This doesn’t mean women can’t have careers or men can’t cook or change a diaper.
A man needs to feel that he is needed and that he excels his woman in his role. If she becomes independent, he may question his purpose and his feelings for her “since his romantic feelings partly arise from her need to be protected, sheltered and cared for.” (102)
A woman should accept her husband at face-value and not try to change him. His pride and freedom are inviolable. She should focus on his good qualities and he will improve naturally in response to her.
Reactions to Andelin are either very positive or very negative. One minister wrote on Amazon:” I have given approximately 250 copies of this book to women I have counselled in the past 5 years. In this period of time, I have yet to see ANY of them NOT improve their marriage by working on what they bring to the marriage, as an individual and to the whole.”
Many women find the book outdated and laughable. One contentious point is that Andelin advises wives to adopt childlike petulance when upset with their husband. A lot of women find this demeaning. But in practice, most men will respond positively when their authority is not directly challenged.
Beautiful women are a dime a dozen but feminine women are extremely rare. The world suffers the loss of feminine spiritual qualities: trust, modesty, grace, innocence, serenity, tenderness, patience and love. This is behind the male obsession with pornographic sex. Men unconsciously seek femininity and love to balance them. The restless masculine spirit seeks a calm harbour.
Young women don’t realize that men find purity and innocence very attractive. Conversely, they are repelled by tough, jaded, experienced women. The willingness of women today to be promiscuous is counterproductive.
THE MONSTROUS HOAX
Men and women are the victims of a cruel hoax. They are taught that sexual differences are “socially conditioned.” Ironically this lie is the actual “social conditioning”. Sexual differences are inborn. For example, males have ten times the level of testosterone as women, and this determines their willingness to take risks, etc. Sex roles express natural differences and form the spice of life.
Feminism’s Marxist principles of “equality” do not apply to loving heterosexual relationships and are in fact toxic. Heterosexual marriage is based on the exchange of female worldly power for male power expressed as love. Equal power neuters both sexes.
Our leaders are accomplices to this monstrous hoax. Behind them are the private central bankers who print our currency in the form of a debt to them. They need a world government so no country can default on it. They need a dictatorship so the people cannot end this scam. They need to stunt our natural development by fostering gender confusion so we can be controlled.
Feminism was organized by the US Communist Party, the CIA and the elite media, all instruments of the central bankers. It is funded by the Rockefeller Foundation. The purpose is to undermine society and deliver it to Communism.
I get email from feminists who say my articles are “hurtful.” It’s eerie how they all use that word and repeat the party line. I think it’s “hurtful” that the super rich want to take the place of God and nature and enslave humanity. But these feminists don’t get it. They don’t get “A”‘s for connecting feminism with the Rockefellers, Sept. 11 and Iraq, i.e. Cabalist banker Dictatorship.
Feminism is designed to make women feel unworthy for devoting their lives to the people they love. It forces them out of the house where their employers can control them. It forces infants into joyless daycares subject to conditioning and who-knows-what-else.
The occult assault on gender and the nuclear family is causing psychological dislocation. Masculine and feminine energy complement each other. We naturally crave that essence which is best found in marriage and conjugal sex. Destroy masculine and feminine and you undermine this fundamental yin-yang principle. Society is oblivious to this diabolical attack by its traitorous elite.
I would never stand between anyone and their idea of fulfillment. But ladies, don’t be so gullible! You’re being defrauded of a lifetime of love. Have your careers later but don’t forfeit your femininity and your chance to have a family.
Jonas E. Alexis has degrees in mathematics and philosophy. He studied education at the graduate level. His main interests include U.S. foreign policy, the history of the Israel/Palestine conflict, and the history of ideas. He is the author of the book, Kevin MacDonald’s Metaphysical Failure: A Philosophical, Historical, and Moral Critique of Evolutionary Psychology, Sociobiology, and Identity Politics. He teaches mathematics in South Korea.
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On a group of beautiful deserted islands in the middle of nowhere, the following people are suddenly stranded by a shipwreck:
• 2 Italian men and 1 Italian woman
• 2 French men and 1 French woman
• 2 German men and 1 German woman
• 2 English men and 1 English woman
• 2 Chinese men and 1 Chinese woman
• 2 American men and 1 American woman
One month later the following things have occurred:
The Italian man killed the other Italian man for the Italian woman.
The two French men and the French woman are living happily together in a menage-a-trois.
The two German men have a strict weekly schedule of alternating visits with the German woman.
The two English men are waiting for someone to introduce them to the English woman.
The two Chinese men have set up a pharmacy, a liquor store, a restaurant and a laundry, and have got the woman pregnant in order to supply employees for their stores.
The two American men are contemplating the virtues of suicide because the American woman keeps endlessly complaining about her body; the true nature of feminism; how she can do everything they can do; the necessity of fulfillment; the equal division of household chores; how sand and palm trees make her look fat; how her last boyfriend respected her opinion and treated her nicer than they do; how her relationship with her mother is improving and how at least the taxes are low and it isn’t raining.
Cute, but you obviously don’t live with any Italian women.
There is so much to say here.
This is not a science but rather a generational attitude adjustment. And every society adjust differently.
In the Middle East Iran has the most feminists in all of the region from the start of the last century onward who helped the society adjust to movements such as the hippie subculture which out of all the places in the world it found a home in Iran much faster and better than even Europe. Yes hippies went next door to Afghanistan to get their hash and the culture shock sent them away to Iran a very fast pace progressive society with Rumi et al and in a way they got a boost in their women’s lib movement and artistic experimentations which was brought back to the west.
In France and Germany where again the feminist movements were face to face with harsh chauvinism mostly from the clergyman the liberation took a very different path leading to a culture of debauchery and divorce.
In the US the battlegrounds are even more confusing due to lack of education and class.
Funny sidelining (as usual !): A breast augmentation surgery price includes two sessions with a psychologist to teach the person to not take excessive advantage of the newly acquired power ! (True)
If a mans manhood is so fragile, that he is intimidated by strong women, then I have no idea what to say to that person. Women are in a healing period that will likely take generations, due to centuries of toxic masculinity that seeks to oppress womanly strength, impose undeserved guilt into her psyche by teaching a doctrine of being born into sin, and generally using them as baby production plants for the factories and wars the men think up. The fears of woman are the most often targeted, to stir up war and male self validation. The time of claiming women, is over, and the time to earn them, is here. There will be much whining and complaining by unfit men during this transition. Nobody taught them, how to deserve a woman. They came from a doctrine of ownership and control.
Yes, David, and this became apparent decades ago. The transition period has been rough for both genders. Most of the problems are linked to a struggle for power and control over others. Jonas isn’t seeing the big picture here.
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