The first thing that you need to understand about sex is that not everyone is the same and some of us have higher libidos than others, some have different sexual preferences and some people are a little bit kinky as well.
This makes the bedroom a more exciting place for all and in any healthy relationship both parties need to be happy and they both need to be fulfilled. It is well documented that a relationship that has a healthy sexual outlook will stand the test of time and each partner can enjoy many different health benefits.
Having a sexual relationship can include many other things like bondage, role-play, and even sex toys in the bedroom. It is important however that both parties feel safe and confident and that they feel loved within the relationship. It can be difficult finding that balance between emotions and physicality when it comes to your relationship and you want to be able to satisfy your partner every time that you get between the sheets. If you have concerns about your current relationship then the following are just some of the ways to create a healthy sexual relationship.
- Spend time together regularly – If you want to remain connected to your partner then it is important that sex happens on a regular basis. This doesn’t mean that you have to be having sex every night of the week but if being intimate for you involves twice a week then that is enough. If both of you are experiencing satisfying sex then it helps the relationship to strengthen and the bond between you gets stronger every single time. It is also an excellent way to get rid of the stress that you are carrying around and hopefully get rid of some of your inhibitions.
- Try to be confident – This is a lot easier said than done but if your partner makes you feel loved and you do the same to them then confidence levels will be high with both of you and this leads to better lovemaking. Never be embarrassed about the noises that your body makes during sex and always place your trust in your partner.
- Try not to be jealous – You should never compare your relationship with your partner’s old relationships and if you do this, it will lead to feelings of jealousy and resentment. It is important to be in a happy sexual relationship when both parties don’t feel threatened by the other. It’s important to enjoy your time together in the bedroom and that includes incorporating some bondage then so be it.
Always be respectful of your partner’s wishes and never try to persuade them to do something that they are not comfortable with. A healthy sexual relationship is all about communicating properly with each other and being open to each other’s thoughts and expectations. If you have something to say then say but try to keep your opinions to yourself until you are outside the bedroom.